To all guys out there:
How to Love your Girlfriend:
1) One & Only. Your girlfriend should be your one & only. Make her feel special, k guys ? You’re lucky to have her even if she’s lucky to have you too. We know there are prettier out there but we like feeling as if we’re the only beautiful one in your eyes, & the only one you see.
2) “Ladies first.” No. That rule doesn’t apply to communication. Don’t wait for her call, text, IM, why don’t you try talking to her first for a change ? It’s thoughtful & sweet if a guy can actually do that.
3) Surprise her. You don’t have to drive an hour to her house at 3 a.m. to set off her name in fireworks in front of her window, but the little things are big things. A simple, good morning text, is more powerful than you think.
4) What insecurities ? For the love of god, all girls have insecurities. Please don’t point them out. For example, today I was looking at food & my boyfriend said “You eat a lot. You probably could beat me at a buffet.” WHAT. THAT’S NOT WHAT YOU SAY. Also, let her be herself. If she’s having a bad hair day, don’t make fun of her if it’s hurtful. Let her wear sweatpants & still feel pretty damn cute around you, even when she’s not looking her best.
5) Act the same around your friends. You’re not a real man if you completely blow off your girl in front of your homeboys. When you’re going to hang out with her & your friends you better not run off & leave her standing there to greet them like WUDDUPPP GUYSSS.. NO, you better at least walk with her & introduce her to them if you haven’t already. If you walk with her hand in hand, she’ll love it.
6) When she’s mad. Dude, you better try & get her back. Chase her, whatever it is, don’t let her walk away when she’s mad at you. It shows you don’t care enough to go after her. Don’t let her go.
7) Maintain. If you did a bunch of cute things with her before, try & keep it up. You don’t have to go all out everyday for her, but don’t stop completely just because you got her already.
8) Honesty. If you lie to her, you’re going to have one hell of a time regaining that trust because she’ll start questioning everything you’ve said or done for her, no matter how small that lie was. Fess up or get lost.
9) Trust. If your girl really doesn’t like one of your friends, trust, she has good reason to. Girls’ intuition -shrug- So don’t go hanging with your homegirl all the time if you know your girlfriend doesn’t like that bitch. She usually won’t hate for no reason. Respect her.
10) Love her. That’s all.
Sounds simple, but just a handful can do it. Same goes to all us girls.
21 comments:
Amen, babes. Amen! I like the communication part. Nakaka relate daw? I talked to my crush today! My panty was nalaglag. Ehehehe.... xD
I know dudes, pag nagka-bf ako papabasa ko sa kanya yan at dapat magpromise sya na susundin nya. Kung di dadanak ng dugo LOL! Lam mo namiss ko 'tong kilig feeling na toh. I haven't felt this in a really long time. Iniimagine ko na agad nga na nagddate kami somewhere eh HAHA!! illusyonada ang lola mo HAHA!! normal ba yun? parang kasi na-oobsess ako.. nakaka adik kiligin and mag pretend na kausap ko sya sa harap ng salamin HAHAHA!!
I'm happy that we're both experiencing this amazing, inspiring feeling. God is definitely by our side. He knows we go crazy when He teases us with cute boys once in awhile xD
It feels so good babes. This kilig feeling is outweighing yung side ko na sinasampal ako to wake up and stop daydreaming. HAHA!! parang talo ko pa ang nanalo sa lotto.
Tell me about your boy!
ps. when we feel this way, should we calm it or do we indulge? parang ayokong umasa. kasi alam mo, ang mali sakin is i think too much. how do you cure that? i don't like it. i don't wanna perceive myself nor others thinking that i'm in a rush to have a boyfriend.. i wanna tell myself that i don't need one as of right now and that the right one will come.. but there's a side of me na gustong gusto ng may i-love, may i-care and may sendan ng sweet little nothings. miss ko yung feeling of loving and being loved in return. i wanna try love again. i don't know if it's temporary or if i'm really ready.
see, what i mean? i hate my thinking-self =_=' it's pathetic!
pps. what if he really doesn't like me =(
Yo, babes! Dadanak ang dugo? Magtatalop and balat sa tinalupan? LMAO! Yung mga naka list kasi hindi lahat magagawa. You know? Pag nangyari yun eh di perfect na yung tao. Wala namang perfect na tao di ba... Ako din lagi nag iimagine! Nakakabaliw kasi nung kausap ko siya kagabi nag tatanungan kami kung may class kami together. Eh meron! Hehehe... Tapos may class siya na need niya yung books ko, so hihiramin niya from me. Awwsssssss..... <3 Alam mo masarap kasi yung kinikilig ka dahil may nagpapangiti sayo everyday. One moment na maalala mo for example yung nag papapansin siya, mapapa smile ka na agad. Pero wag ka naman makipag usap sa salamin. Over naman yun! Hahahha!
Oo. God is on our side. Alam Niya kasi na gusto din natin sumaya despite of all the things na pinagdaanan natin with boys. Feeling ko din nanalo ako sa lotto kasi ang pogi ng mga "eyecandy" natin. Eheheh.
Okay. About my boy naman:
Name: Steven Gracanin
He is Serbian. Chem major. Ang talino nia! 5'7-ish. Brown eyes. Mejo ok naman body type. Mabango (lol). May 2 dimples siya na super cute! Omg... Nakaka melt pag ngumiti siya! Haaaaaaaaay... Pag may time ka, ask mo si ate ira kung pede mo use FB nia to stalk my guy. Nasa fb ko naman si Steven. He always helps me sa chem problems ko. I dropped the class kasi di ko nakuha yung grade na gusto ko. Then nalungkot ako sobra kasi parang feel ko sumuko ako. He sent me a message sa inbox ko sa fb saying na wag ako sumuko, kayanin ko kasi mataas pangarap ko. Pag kailangan ko daw ng help sabihin ko lang. Imagine mo yun? We are strangers to each other talaga and sa fb and lab lang kami nag uusap MINSAN LANG tapos he will send a message based on sa nakita niang reaction ko na super down ako? SWEET NAMAN! My panty is nalaglag!!! xD
About our feelings naman. We don't have to calm it or indulge in it kasi natural feeling to eh. Go with the flow lang. Kung naiisip mo siya right now, then ok lang yun. Think about him in a healthy way. I think too much too like you. Pero hindi ko mapipigil ang feelings mo kung masyado kang masaya about seeing him or kung feel mo dapat calm ka lang. That is up to you. Ako all smiles pag nakikita ko si Steven eh. Parang cloud 9 ba... Gusto ko rin na parang may inaalagaan ako, may love, loved in return... Pero yung first 2 lang naman na experience ko with Paul. Hindi naman ako love nun in return. Never niya sinabi. Sinabi niya lang that he really cares for me. Pero di ko alam kung ano na totoo. Sa dami ng narinig ko hindi ko na alam ano papaniwalaan. So hindi ko na mimiss ang feeling na mahalin in return dahil di ko pa xa na eexperience. =(
Love.. mahirap i define ang word na yan. Kung kaya mo siya i-define, sabi nila hindi daw un love.
Meng... kung hindi ka niya like eh kawalan nia yun. Ngayon naman, do not assume na hindi ka niya like. Kelan lang ba kayo nag start mag usap. Mag flirt ka konti. Small talk. You know? Mag ask ka tapos sasagot siya, tapos tumahimik ka lang konti, then for sure he will ask you something and then it goes on and on and on and onnnnn.... hanggang magalit na boss nio. LOL.
Enjoy the feeling lang. Masaya ka naman kahit konti diba? =)
Grabe... nadoble mga post ko. Dinelete ko ung iba tapos di ko makita yung iba. Amp. Anyway...
may sunod pa. Here:
Nakakainis na hindi ko pa nakakalimutan si Paul. Parang hindi ko ever makakalimutan. Dati sabi ko kay Ate ok na ako. Nawala na feeling pero ngayon meron uli. Haaaayyyy
girl, you're so optimistic just like me :) i love it! ayos yan, single and ready to mingle LOL! pero i think and i'm sure we're better off taking care of someone and caring about them :)
ewan ko, nahihiya ako magflirt. i don't want him to see me like that.. that i flirt with everyone i meet.. but other than that, i'd love to make flirt flirt HAHAHA!!
kaya lang kasi, i dont know if she's into filipinos kasi nga di ba half trinidadian din sya. his built is really parang itim, but his face is really filipino.. ewan ko lng =P
as for your boyyyy, that's better if you'll get him to tutor you for chem and then you can tutor him for the class you took already. that way you can spend more time together :)
Talagang single and ready to mingle ako! A lot pa nga eh! Pag dating ko sa Spain sa January eh magpapakasaya ako habang nag aaral. Hahah! Wala naman reason para magmukmok ako. I agree sa sinabi mo na we are better off taking care of someone than them taking care of us kasi likas na satin yun. Kung hindi lang natin dream maging professional one day, I am sure we are gonna be the best homemakers. Mahilig tayo mag luto, magaling tayo sa oag lilinis ng bahay, mag alaga ng mga mahal sa buhay. All around kasi tayo. ;P
Yung pag flirt naman minsan it comes out naturally na yun. Hormones na ang nag aact! Haha! Kung hindi ka nun type, hindi ka papansinin nun. I am sure may attraction siya sayo kahit konti. Let it happen lang, Meng. Kung half Trinidadian siya eh la naman probs dun. Alam mo mga foreigner mahilig sa Pinay! At kung asal itim siya eh mas lalo na! Mahilig sila sa mga Asians. Nako alam mo minsan di ko gusto magdamit ng mejo low cut kasi lagi may naghoholler na itim or Hispanis. Di ko like... I like puti guys kasi. Amp!
Si Steven naman kasi tahimik siya. Hindi ko alam kung ano meron mga quiet guys ate gustong gusto ko. Hahah!
nakakainis ka naman dayy!! mas napapadalas ang pagccheck ko dito at mas naddoble ang pag iisip ko kay toots, mygawshh! pero nakakatuwa talaga sya, kasi lagi kong nakikita na nakatingin sya whenever i'm working. minsan nakakagulat kasi paglingon ko nakatingin na parang stalker lang eh while nakatunganga sya sa may electronics dept. NAKAKABLUSH NAMAN MAGREMINISCE BABES!!!
ayy, may namiss pala akong very very important detail sa aming first encounter. mas bata sya sakin kasi i asked how old he is. HUHUHUHU T__T kainis =( pero sabi nya naman you're not that old at exaggerated naman daw ako. pero still!! age matters for me. ayokong maging baby sitter at sugar mommy HAHAHAHAHA!!
tagal ko pa sya makikita dude, next next saturday pa T__T i looked at the sched kasi eh.. nakakabanas.. sana same school kami noh =)
hayy, sana di sya nabibilaukan dahil lagi ko syang iniisip.. at sana naiisip nya din meeeeee!
obsessed ba ako? at sawa ka na ba sa mga sinasabe ko.. sana may fb sya para mastalk ko din dun!! nde actually, wag baka maadik ako sa fb again..
musta school mo ba? let's move out of this topic por favor!
Di ka naman obsessed sa kanya. Infatuated ka lang kasi ng todo ngayon kasi new feeling yung nararamdaman mo. Kaw naman.. nag aalala ka kagad eh. lol.
Anyway, sige change topic kasi puro na lang crush to napag uusapan natin. I've been meaning to tell you something talaga about school Nalilimutan ko lang. Ready ka na? Shocker to babes! Ehem ehem....
I THINK I AM GONNA JOIN THE NAVY OR AIR FORCE.
Huahhhhhhhhhh! Gulat ka noh? They will pay for my tuition fee kasi. I am not sure kung pati undergrad babayaran nila if I join the NROTC or AFROTC (navy or air force). I was thinking na sumali para naman ma-isalba ko pa sarili ko sa pakabaon sa utang. Ang mahal ng tuition ko. Alam mo 47K na utang ko. Dios ko po... Anyway I can pay for that pag doctor na ako pero kung mababawasan siya, or better yet, wala na ako talaga utang na aalalahanin pa eh mas maganda.
Tapos ang kapalit ng pag bayad nila sa tuition fees ko eh three or 4 years of service. Okay naman sakin yun kasi I will work sa mga land naval base of my choice dito sa US and I can capably do humanitarian work with them as well. Diba? Win-win situation? Bayad na utang ko, doctor na ako, naging officer pa. Ayus! If I decide na sa medical school na mag join, bayad nila med school ko tapos may monthly stipend ako na 2 thousand a month plus housing stipend! WOW!! Okay na okay sakin yun Meng!
K... Ngayon naman sa school (current events daw. HAHAH!).. I registered for 5 classes. Heavy load ako this fall kasi nga aalis ako sa January for Spain. Sa June/July na ako uuwi dito sa Chicago kasi hanngang May 27 ang duration ng study abroad tapos mag tatravel ako sa mga ibang countries sa Europe for a month or less. Di ba exciting? Di ko pinalitan major ko kung naiisp mo na irrelevant sa Neuroscience. LOL. Second major ko kasi Spanish tapos Classics minor pa rin. 5 years program ako sa UIC so may 3 years pa ako natitira. Haba nun pero I can do it! Buti ka pa graduate na sa 2012. Pero pede parin kita samahan umuwi. =)
Ikaw naman... Kamusta school?
Oh.. P.S
Kung nadidistract ka sa blog mo like sa FB dahil sakin, reply ka lang at your own time. I understand naman na nasa summer school ka parin. Basta study well! Sabihin mo lang pag if ever you need help. Taong bahay at gym lang naman ako. I just study for my placement test sa Spanish. Actually, wala ako motivation kasi sa Barcelona study abroad wala namang language requirement. Sa Salamanca and Grenada lang. ( I think I like Barcelona more.) =P
P.P.S
Ano ba yan parang nobela ang sagot ko lagi. Ang daldal ko! joskoday... Hay.. Dun sa sinabi mo na you don't like being older, apir tayo jan. They tend to be immature kasi pag mas bata. Feeling baby kasi inaalagaan natin. Pero anyway.. eto bomba... I like older men! Haha.. Nako po.. Ewan ko. Basta. They turn me on. Ayoko ng 20 yrs old tulad ko. Gusto ko mga 24 to 27-ish... Haha!
Uy, alam mo ang dami ko ng narinig na sumali sa navy for school. I borrowed some books about med school students. A handful of them enlisted kasi they need school assistance. Some of them had a family din na nung nag enter ng school so your idea sounds really great. Of course di lang yun for money, admin from med schools would see your determination to get in med school. It's also an advantage din sa application mo kasi that's a good source of experience. And again, that'd say a lot about you as a person and as a citizen. When do you plan on joining? Exciting yan!! I think it'll have lifelong impact sayo, which is goood!
LOL, alam mo i also have that tendency to be attracted to older men. I like our family doctor. He seems to have a lot of passion and witt which isn't very common among peeps our age. I think I'm attracted to people who have an ambition, those who know what they want to do. Those who have substance. I like that =)
As for me with school, ayos naman. I have my exams on the 18th and 19th. Back to back. Yung sa 18th, it's from 7-10 pm then the next day I have an exam from 8-11 am. Gollyyyy :( Pero I like my classes this summer. They're not that terrible; i just have to keep up with the readings. And yes, I'm quite excited to graduate! Idk if I'll head straight to post-grad studies kasi most ng nakausap ko sa speech pathology program sa school, they had clinical experience from volunteering right after undergrad. Though I want to finish asap and work, if it gives my application an advantage to have volunteer experiences, I guess I have to do that. Pero I'm still looking for a place to volunteer during the school year. Idk how I'll handle that with school and work though. We'll see na lang. Bahala na si batman lol.
Kelan ba bisita mo dito?
Nakausap ko na yung isang representative about enlisting. Sa tingin ko kasi magandang training talaga ang pag sali sa navy kasi pag labas ko ng medical school hands on stuff talaga hindi tulad ng pag sa residency utasan ako ng fellow ko. Parang si House? Ayaw ni mama kasi ako daw older daughter. Takot daw siya. Pero sabi ko supportahan lang niya ako. Si daddy okay siya sa idea.
Buti naman okay ang school mo. Nahirapan ako sa summerr class ko ng onti. Di ko kasi alam ang eexpect. First time ko mag summer class. Pero all in all ok naman. Grabe ang fighting spirit natin sa pag aaral. Kahit ano gagawin natin! Good luck sa mga exams mo! Kayang kaya mo yan!
Di ko lam when ako dadalaw kasi magastos yung study abroad. I need to save a lot. Siguro around october for a weekend lang. Mga 3 days lng. Sabihin ko agad sayo para maka hang out tayo. =)
Plan ko mag join ASAP sa navy. Bagay naman ako sa navy eh. Macho! Haha! Ano plans mo pala? Mag med school ka ba? Or grad school? Ako kasi I think I'm going for an MD and PhD program. 6 yrs prog. Siya.
grabeng makakain talaga ng time ang FB babes. I've been on it for almost 2 hours T__T kala ko pics lang titignan ko then wala na lol. so you writing on my wall was a wake up call. sorry di ako nagreply kasi naguilty ako, so dito na ko nag msg. nakakagutom ding mag FB dude, kaya ngaun kumakain na naman ako :)) idk, how you control yourself from checking fb every 2 seconds T__T i can't seem to get enough of it, ugh
Nakaka adik nga FB talaga. Gustuhin ko man na ipa change pw. ko or I deactivate again, di ko kaYa! Grrr... eh ako nga kung di nag FB sa pc, sa phone nman nag checheck! Yung ibang tao kasi dun ko lang nakakausap. Dati natiis ko di mag FB for a 2 months! Tapos parang nagka-withdrawal ako and na adik uli. Can't stop na! Pano ba toh? Change my pw!
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